Titus 2:7-8

Show yourself in all respects a model of good deeds, and in your teaching show integrity, gravity, and sound speech that cannot be censured, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us.

There are so many opportunities in life to interact with people. And in most cases, this is cause for rejoice. Playing games, whether of mind or sport, is all the more enjoyable when we are around those we love and respect. Even the most mundane activities can be made joyous with someone with whom we share good deeds and good cheer. This is why we are made to be social creatures, both with friends, and family, and with our one true partner, with whom we rejoice for our entire lives. And when we conduct ourselves with integrity and do good deeds, we are a blessing and a gift to those around us. The good cheer is infectious. But of course there are interactions that can become truculent. Contrary to what many believe, however, we are in control of our emotions, even in the face of anger. We can resolve these problems in two ways; one, by always being honest and forthright; and two, by living through Christ's teachings, doing good deeds. Many people bemoan their straits by saying that they are unlucky or that others are conspiring against them. But the truth is that those of integrity leave no openings for their opponents to strike. The only way that we can assure ourselves of being pure of action is being pure of heart. And this is also the only way that we can look outside of ourselves to solve the problems of those around us. For most of the time, when a friend turns into an opponent, he is saying evil about us because he feels evil about himself. And that person needs help, not opposition and anger. The man who is pure of spirit and intention, who teaches and acts with integrity and sound speech, is assured of himself in the face of opposition and ridicule. Only with these qualities can he help others to see what they need to resolve.